Archive for February, 2009

EDs Are A Huge Epidemic

Saturday, February 28th, 2009

I’m going to throw a few stats out here so you get the idea of the scope of the Eating Disorder problem and just how serious it is.

 

Disclaimer:  I don’t believe there are any truly reliable stats available.  The following seem to be, in my own opinion,  as reliabile as I can find.  But if you look around you’ll find all sorts of different statistics from different sources.  

 

Regardless of where you get statistics, I think the bottom line is that there is clear agreement that the Eating Disorder problem is huge and growing.  And scary.

 

Also, I hope you will be mindful of the overall problem but I encourage you to place your energies and efforts into one statistic - your daughter’s or your daughters’ problem(s).

 

I’m just going to pick a few that I think are representative.  These are all from the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA).   You can get more details and proper references for their findings Here.

 

11,000,000 and growing.

 

·         In the United States, as many as 10 million females and 1 million males are fighting a life and death battle with an eating disorder such as anorexia or bulimia. Millions more are struggling with binge eating disorder.

 

·         Because of the secretiveness and shame associated with eating disorders, many cases are probably not reported. In addition, many individuals struggle with body dissatisfaction and sub-clinical disordered eating attitudes and behaviors. For example, it has been shown that 80% of American women are dissatisfied with their appearance.

 

          ·         For females between fifteen to twenty-four years old who suffer from anorexia nervosa, the mortality rate associated with the illness is twelve times higher than the death rate of ALL other causes of death. 
Please note, the heightened mortality rate applies only to those with anorexia and does not mean that anorexia is the leading cause of death among all females aged 15-24 in the general public.

 

·         Anorexia nervosa has the highest premature fatality rate of any mental illness.

 

·         40% of newly identified cases of anorexia are in girls 15-19 years old.

 

·         Significant increase in incidence of anorexia from 1935 to 1989 especially among young women 15-24.

 

·         A rise in incidence of anorexia in young women 15-19 in each decade since 1930.

 

·         The incidence of bulimia in 10-39 year old women TRIPLED between 1988 and 1993.

 

·         Only one-third of people with anorexia in the community receive mental health care.

 

·         Only 6% of people with bulimia receive mental health care.

 

·         The majority of people with severe eating disorders do not receive adequate care.

What are we doing about it?

Despite its prevalence, there is inadequate research funding for eating disorders. Funding for eating disorders research is approximately 75% less than that for Alzheimer’s disease. In the year 2005, the National Institute of Health (NIH) funded the following disorders accordingly:

Illness

Prevalence

Research Funds

Eating disorders:

10 million

$12,000,000*

Alzheimer’s disease:

4.5 million

$647,000,000

Schizophrenia:

2.2 million

$350,000,000

* The reported research funds are for anorexia nervosa only. No estimated funding is reported for bulimia nervosa or eating disorders not otherwise specified.

Research dollars spent on eating disorders averaged $1.20 per affected individual, compared to $159 per affected individual for schizophrenia.

What does the public think about eating disorders?

In March 2005, NEDA contracted with Global Market Insite, Inc. (GMI), a leader in global market research, to conduct a 1,500 nationwide sample of adults in the U.S. Their findings concluded from those surveyed that:

·         Three out of four Americans believe eating disorders should be covered by insurance companies just like any other illness.

·         Americans believe that government should require insurance companies to cover the treatment of eating disorders.

·         Four out of ten Americans either suffered or have known someone who has suffered from an eating disorder.

 

The “Diet” Industry and the Media contribute to unhealthy goals.

 

·         Over one-half of teenage girls and nearly one-third of teenage boys use unhealthy weight control behaviors such as skipping meals, fasting, smoking cigarettes, vomiting, and taking laxatives.   

·         Girls who diet frequently are 12 times as likely to binge as girls who don’t diet.  

·         42% of 1st-3rd grade girls want to be thinner.  

·         81% of 10 year olds are afraid of being fat.  

·         The average American woman is 5’4” tall and weighs 140 pounds. The average American model is 5’11” tall and weighs 117 pounds.

·         Most fashion models are thinner than 98% of American women.  

·         46% of 9-11 year-olds are “sometimes” or “very often” on diets, and 82% of their families are “sometimes” or “very often” on diets.   

·         91% of women recently surveyed on a college campus had attempted to control their weight through dieting, 22% dieted “often” or “always.” 

·         95% of all dieters will regain their lost weight in 1-5 years.   

·         35% of “normal dieters” progress to pathological dieting. Of those, 20-25% progress to partial or full-syndrome eating disorders.  

·         25% of American men and 45% of American women are on a diet on any given day.  

·         Americans spend over $40 billion on dieting and diet-related products each year.

Thanks, again to NEDA for the above. 

My Thoughts.

Here are a few of my thoughts on this. 

We’re in a crises and we dads, often “fix-it” types, need to get involved in the research, prevention, and recovery aspects of the Eating Disorder crises.  If we’re going to fix-it, we need to get involved.

If there are 11,000,000 people (boys and men, too, not just girls and women) people in the US with Eating Disorders, that means there are somewhere in the neighborgood of 11,000,000 of us Dads who are impacted and need every resources we can put our hands on to help our loved ones in their battles. 

Plus millions and millions more who need to be aware and learn as much as possible about what they can do and how they can help their children from a prevention standpoint.

Start today.  Now. 

Dads – your daughters are at risk. 

Please feel free to get active in this Blog and use our website as a resource center and support group.  Be interactive.  Ask your questions.  Share your knowledge and experience. 

We’re in this together.  Let’s pool our resources. 

 

Respectfully Submitted - Dexter Godbey - Dexter@dad-eds.com

Respectfully Submitted - Dexter Godbey - Dexter@Dad-EDs.com

 

 

 

 

 

Welcome to Our Dad-EDs Blog

Thursday, February 26th, 2009

Welcome to the Dad-EDs Blog. 

Dad-EDs stands for Dads and Daughters with Eating Disorders.  Dad-EDs.

I am Dexter Godbey and I am just starting this Blog and the Dad-Eds.com website today.

Why?  Because I have a 26 year old daughter with a severe Eating Disorder.  Girls and women with Eating Disorders often just abbreviate and call them ED.  Collectively, that would be EDs.  Hence the Dad-Eds name.

I started our website and blog (and, if you are a dad with a daughter suffering from an Eating Disorder or a caring dad with a daughter and you want to do everything you can to make sure she doesn’t develop and Eating Disorder, I hope you will think of our website and this blog as YOUR website and YOUR blog) because I found it so difficult and frustrating to find information about EDs that is specifically oriented to dads.  

So I’m doing this to make it easier for you than it was for me.

There is a ton of information about Eating Disorders.  But, in my view (and I did a lot of research) very little that is helpful in a practical sense for us dads.  For example:

 

·         I found nothing to explain how health insurance works for Eating Disorders. 

·      I had to go to lots of websites and make tons of calls to get a feel for what the best kind of treatment might be for my daughter and where she might go to get that treatment. 

·         I read the words, but had no understanding of how someone can develop an eating disorder. 

·         It took a long time to realize that just admonishing my daughter to “eat more - it’s not that hard” not only did no good, but was most likely detrimental. 

·         In an effort to be understanding and concerned and helpful I kept trying to talk to her about food, her eating habits, and her weight - all the exact WRONG things to do. 

·         I couldn’t find a dad anywhere  who had real experience with Eating Disorders.  Or at least who would admit it.

And that list of what I couldn’t find could go on and on. 

So as I got better informed, I decided to share as much of what I’ve learned with as many dads as I can.  After all, we’re gratefully in the information age and sharing via the Internet is fairly easy.

I also want to solicit the advice and opinions of other dads who have been on the same path as me. 

And also to solicit the questions and concerns of dads everywhere about this horrific disease that is running rampant not just through America, but around the world. 

Finally, I will make every effort to see if we can get input and advice from professionals who are willing to contribute here, to our quest to be great dads of daughters with EDs.

I confess I still don’t “get it.”  I understand the words.  I hear what the experts say.  I’ve read books and articles about it.  And, although the Eating Disorder subject makes me feel ignorant and useless and powerless, I’m actually not all that dumb.  Intellectually, I can understand the series of events that might lead up to it and the “triggers” that might send someone over the edge.  I hear and understand the rationales about how our daughters end up with Eating Disorders. 

But emotionally, I cannot get in touch with how or why binging and purging or restricting your food intake to the point of literally starving yourself to death solves any problems whatsoever.  I confess, it’s beyond me. 

I’ve sort of given up “getting it.”  But I have also learned and accepted that I don’t have to “get it” to be helpful in my daughter’s recovery.  Nor do I have to “get it” to possibly help other dads prevention efforts and/or recovery efforts with their precious daughters. 

Whether I ever get it or not doesn’t matter.  My daughter was near death with her Eating Disorder. 

It is real.  It is horrific.  It is deadly in many ways.  It destroys lives and families - trust and loyalty.  It destroys girls and woman of all ages. 

The more we dads can learn and do and the more caring, loving support we can give, the better off all of our daughters will be.  The better off the world will be.

I hope you’ll join me in this effort to help our precious daughters. 

Respectfully Submitted     Dexter Godbey   Dexter@Dad-EDs.com

Respectfully Submitted Dexter Godbey Dexter@Dad-EDs.com